calming the werewolf

There are many ways to calm a werewolf once he/she has shifted. But these methods are not normally tried by an outsider of the wolf. In fact, once the transformation has taken place it is ill advised to interfere with the actions of the wolf.

But the werewolf himself can take advantage of the methods if he can become lucid enough to understand the exact state that the wolf is in. The werewolf must realize that he/she has turned and must immediately take steps to try to calm.

This is a debated topic since many believe that the werewolf maintains control no matter what happens. But the fact is that many lose control and cannot maintain themselves. This is partly because of the adrenaline rushing through the body, which is normal. The heart starts pumping and the blood starts flowing, adrenaline kicks in quite rough.

To maintain the weighted one should do everything to become calm before an inevitable shift. Breath deeply, trying not to think of the impending change. Shift your thoughts to something pleasant, again, not the shift. Keep your limbs under control, shaky hands and shaky legs or feet need to be controlled. Focus. Focus on anything but the change, the transformation could change your life – positively or negatively.

There are techniques that I have not touched upon, but I am sure many of the werewolves or weighted ones out there will share their experience on how to maintain control.



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31 Responses

  1. Dynomutt says:

    I’m a big fan of stress balls – for both squeezing and chewing – before a moon. I find it really calms me daon and even helps me to get into a meditative state of mind.

  2. she wolf says:

    I would just try to talk to a wolf with these conntrol problems. Not only that, I would try them to be my friend. Just like what naruto did to his kyuubi no kitsune. Ehehehe.

  3. Mary says:

    i just try to shift as little as possible. but when i cant control my shifting, i usually fight back or try to stay absolutly still or try inhaling and exhaling with my eyes closed.

  4. Lycanhope says:

    @Mary: If you fight it and try to avoid it whenever you can, it’s just going to be worse. You’re denying a rather large part of yourself, and that never ends well.
    Focus on gaining a better control over that part of your mind, and these problems will pretty much disappear.

  5. william says:

    @Lycanhope: can you be my master/mentor/teacher too?

  6. william says:

    @Lycanhope: I think the people in my school are starting to get suspicious about me. I am not sure if I am a werewolf or not, but I got the traits. Anyways the girls just keep giving me the looks(I am not saying I don’t like it…) not just that but in a way I feel like they are getting suspicious about me. There’s this girl I see in the bus and when she stares at me I feel weird(not in a weird love sensation)it feels weird. For some reason I feel that she’s different as well! What could this mean?

  7. william says:

    @Lycanhope: a while back I had this dream of a girl(I had never seen that girl in my life!).
    This is the dream:

    I was on a bridge with this guy behind me, he seem like as if he was my bodyguard but I am pretty sure he was a friend. The guy was tall(taller than me),he was pale,had black hair,wearing a leather jacket and skinny black jeans,and had sunglasses on.(for some reason I knew he was a vampire)
    The guy was behind me and this girl came infront of me and said”I know your a real werewolf” and my friend said in a sarcastic way”what are you gonna do now?tell the whole world!?” And I replied to him”calm down! I am the one who told her”( for some reason in my dream I knew that girl, but I was aware that I didn’t knew her*remember I can somewhat manipulate my dreams*). Then for some reason I kissed the girl and then some people were following me and my friend and the girl ran in different directions. I started to run fast! Very fast and it was snowing I passed through a park then 2 men were following(somehow they kept up with me), as I reached the corner of my block I ran to my house and when I got inside my house I woke up.

    After this dream…
    I was waiting for the bus infront of my school when I saw the girl in my dreams coming out of my school, she stared at me for a couple of seconds and so did I. When she passed by me she just kept walking and started to run!then as she got to the other bus stop she quickly took the bus and left. After that I’ve only seen her twice.

    What do you think of this dream?

  8. Lycanhope says:

    @william: Well, before you said that you were becoming more attractive, so I’m inclined to say it’s that. Though possibly you’re picking up that she is like you, so you’re sensing a potentially suitable mate. Try to be her friend or something, but don’t be creepy, lol.

  9. william says:

    @Lycanhope: lol that’s the thing I am not good with girls specially around someone like her. Did you read about my dream? What do you think?(the girl in my dream is another girl than the one I am talking about.)

  10. night wolf says:

    this is where i say” thankyou anger management and mind calming exersizes”;)

  11. william says:

    Wait before all of this comes to a conclusion I have a quick question…
    becoming attractive to a lot of girls, is it a werewolf trait? I read that it is but I don’t know if its a real fact.

  12. night wolf says:

    @william:yes and no. becomeing more atractive no…becoming more confident yes and thats what girls like…confidence

  13. Lycanhope says:

    ^ This. Exactly right. However I became more submissive, that’s how I roll 😀

  14. Mannaro says:

    It’s very hard to control it even with stress balls, earlier in life at about 10 I used to dig my nails into my arm. I have more control now at least…

  15. Sunagoth says:

    I need help I can’t control myself I am scared I turned in school 3 times someone help me control myself

  16. Sunagoth says:

    I need help I can’t control myself I have turned in school 3 times I’m afraid I will hurt someone

  17. Sunagoth says:

    Its terrifying

  18. Kitty1shapeshifter1 says:

    Ok well werewolves look like wolves 10 times bigger ok

  19. Lycanhope says:

    Because I have nothing better to do at the moment.
    @Sunagoth No, you didn’t.
    @Kitty1shapeshifter1: No, we don’t. That would be Twilight you’re thinking of. Which is fictional.

  20. Ryan says:

    I’ve got a lot of friends round and I am starting to turn wolf please help me calm down

  21. Rigby says:

    Hey Luca hope can you really turn into a wolf!or werewolf

  22. Rigby says:


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