how do werewolves find their mate?

For a werewolf to find a mate is very difficult. There are many obstacles standing in their paths – not the least of which is that they are surrounded by humans that they have a hard time relating to and that have a hard time relating to them! Many werewolves go a long time without finding a mate. But how did the ones that did find one do it?

When a werewolf comes across their mate they can sense it. They feel an inexplicable urge to be near the individual. There is something compelling about the individual. They want to know everything about him or her. They want to spend time with the person. Inside, the werewolf will feel a sense of knowing they’ve found the right person, and they’ll no longer feel quite so alone. Everything will feel right, happy, and complete when they’re with their mate. It sounds so overly simplistic to just say that the werewolf will just “know” when they’ve found their mate…but it’s true.

Werewolves have a tendency to avoid people and crowds, and they have a difficult time with trust….all things which could hamper the process of finding their mate. One thing working in the werewolf’s favor however is that often two mates are drawn to each other… so even a werewolf that tends to be reclusive has a strong chance at finding their mate….it just may take a little bit longer. It’s an easier and faster process therefore when the werewolf has connected with themselves and knows who they are and is comfortable in their skin. With that knowledge and comfort level, the werewolf is more likely to be more comfortable around humans and other werewolves, and thus may come upon their other half faster. Regardless however, it does hold true that mates are often drawn to each other, and so will inevitably find each other. :-)



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50 Responses

  1. hope says:

    @lycanhope we?as in you are were as well?and OK I didn’t see them here…
    And do werewolves really have the concept of a mate?
    I hope am not bugging you off

  2. Lycanhope says:

    @hope:Yes, I am. And…gonna go with a tentative yes on the mates thing. It depends on the person. Me personally, yes, I would probably follow that because that’s how my head works, but someone else might not, or at least might not follow it strictly. Hope that makes sense.

    Sensible questions from people that are actually listening and not just hearing what they want to hear is never annoying, it’s a refreshing change. The majority of people here ask “can you turn me into a werewolfs pls” and when I say “no” they just move on to someone else until they get the answer they want.

  3. hope says:

    @lycanhope thanks :)

    Which part of the globe do you live?did you find yur mate?and if your mate happens to be a human will she turn into one after you complete the Bond?
    Do werewolves age?and did you ever shift?
    And and and….how or why is it that you are openly telling all this on a site like this?

  4. hope says:

    Is it safe for you to talk on a site like this?the alpha beta concept?does it exist?

  5. Lycanhope says:

    @hope: No I haven’t cause I have very little interest in people. The concept seems sensible though, so I presume I’d be okay with it.

    Any mate would be human, because regardless of what people would like to believe we are all still human. That doesn’t magically change, even if you don’t like it.
    Isn’t “the Bond” a Twilight thing? I feel like that’s a Twilight thing. Regardless, that’s not a thing that exists.

    Yes of course we age. No, unfortunately due to how my head works I can’t and never will be able to shift. It’s not fun knowing something is wrong but not being able to do anything about it incidentally.

    A can and do talk in places like this because there’s no reason not to, I like to emphasize to people that there is nothing out there coming to get them.
    I also like to look out for people that may be legit and looking for answers, and direct them very far away from here to people that can actually help.

    Alpha/beta concept, same as the mate thing, depends on the person. I follow it, even though I don’t mean to. I tend to go for the omega role in any group I end up in, even if I don’t actively realise it.

  6. Lee Ann says:

    The bonds a Twilight thing, even in the actual animal kingdom it doesn’t exist amongst the majority of mammals, much less in wolfkin/otherkin. Other then that, Alpha. Always Alpha.

  7. Gabriel says:

    I’ve never been in a pack-like group of friends. But usually due to others inept abilities, I end up leader of a group. I would prefer to be the actual leader hidden in the background (which I’m better at) but never get the chance.

  8. Sophia Mader says:

    What happens if the mate doesn’t won’t to be mates with the werewolf. What would happen if the werewolf could get his/her mate?

  9. Lycanhope says:

    @Sophia Mader: Then that would be a forced relationship, so cops and probably a restraining order would be involved? I’m not sure what you expected the answer to be.

  10. starlight says:

    Hi and how is everyone?

  11. Gabriel says:

    @starlight: Good. How about you?

  12. Lycanhope says:

    @starlight. Pretty good, but busy, at least till my last exam.

  13. Skylar says:

    Is it possible for werewolf to have a human mate?

  14. Lycanhope says:

    @Skylar: Why wouldn’t it be?

  15. lilliana says:

    I’m kind of new to all of the ” different” things happening to me. I guess what I’m trying to say is, will u email me and tell me more about what I need to do when I turn or ” phrase” as I like to say it? That is if u really are one your self?

  16. Lycanhope says:

    @liliana: If you’re talking to me, no I wouldn’t, because I don’t give out my email to random strangers on the Internet. Because I have, you know, common sense.
    As for what you do when you turn or, I’m guessing you meant to say phase, that doesn’t really happen. There is no sudden time when your body decides “I’m going to break physics for no reason! Yay!” So, there you go, problem solved.

  17. Michael says:

    I. Like like to have sax with she werewolf family

  18. shadowingX says:

    I’m glad that someone knows their ACTUAL stuff. I mean, my mate and I found each other pretty early, by chance. I appreciate that at least one of my people have the courage to do something like this! You go girl/guy whatever gender you are @lycanhope

  19. Sierra says:

    This is a load of crap. Sorry, but you are telling me you are a werewolf? Lol. Funny.There is no supernatural beings….I don’t believe it until I see it. Mates are just made up, I don’t mean to be rude, well frankly I do. I don’t know if you think its funny to lie just because it’s the internet but come on…

  20. Lycanhope says:

    @shadowingX: Thank you, I try. Good luck with your relationship.

    @Sierra: I mean, you’re entitled to your opinion and all, but I don’t really think you get to judge my life when you don’t even know me.
    I don’t think it’s funny to lie, nor do I find the last 21 years of my life with the constant knowledge that something’s wrong and I can’t change it funny. But whatever, you don’t live with it so if you choose to believe I’m deceiving people in some way go for it, doesn’t bother me.
    I do however find it amusing that you’re telling a dedicated scientist what can and cannot be real. To believe we know everything that is possible is rather delusional all on its own, we haven’t even scratched the surface.

  21. Sierra says:

    You know what, you’re right…. I don’t have any proof that this is all true nor do I have proof it’s not. I suppose I have trust issues with online websites. I just don’t like the idea of people coming on here and believing it all when it is all a joke.
    I am confused as to how you are a werewolf… Could you explain it to me? Do you just feel like it is a lifestyle you feel that ‘feels right’ or do you have supernatural powers? There is a whole world out there that I will never understand. I do apologize if I offended you… That is not something I usually do. Wasn’t in quite the right state of mind yesterday if you understand. Would like to talk about all this to get my mind fully wrapped around it before I decide for myself if it is deal or fake. Please do respond

  22. have you ever met werewolves in your life? is their any chances of werewolves’ mate can be a human? IS this types of things really true or just a myth I don’t know but i would love to meet them once in my life if the stories of werewolves are real is true… sorry for bugging you like this but if you know any more things about them i would love to know… thanks and sorry… :-)

  23. jj says:

    I want to make a werewolf pack we werewolfs are deferent but we have to stick together and we need to do this and share our story how we were transformed from human to werewolf becuase there are two carackters to our bodies and we need to control both of them and ill tell my pack a seckret

  24. Cat says:

    Does their mate have to be a werewolf or can it be any person?

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