how do werewolves find their mate?

For a werewolf to find a mate is very difficult. There are many obstacles standing in their paths – not the least of which is that they are surrounded by humans that they have a hard time relating to and that have a hard time relating to them! Many werewolves go a long time without finding a mate. But how did the ones that did find one do it?

When a werewolf comes across their mate they can sense it. They feel an inexplicable urge to be near the individual. There is something compelling about the individual. They want to know everything about him or her. They want to spend time with the person. Inside, the werewolf will feel a sense of knowing they’ve found the right person, and they’ll no longer feel quite so alone. Everything will feel right, happy, and complete when they’re with their mate. It sounds so overly simplistic to just say that the werewolf will just “know” when they’ve found their mate…but it’s true.

Werewolves have a tendency to avoid people and crowds, and they have a difficult time with trust….all things which could hamper the process of finding their mate. One thing working in the werewolf’s favor however is that often two mates are drawn to each other… so even a werewolf that tends to be reclusive has a strong chance at finding their mate….it just may take a little bit longer. It’s an easier and faster process therefore when the werewolf has connected with themselves and knows who they are and is comfortable in their skin. With that knowledge and comfort level, the werewolf is more likely to be more comfortable around humans and other werewolves, and thus may come upon their other half faster. Regardless however, it does hold true that mates are often drawn to each other, and so will inevitably find each other. 🙂



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244 Responses

  1. francine arcieri says:

    well we have not even scratched the surface of many scientific things. I do believe there is so much out there some things we will be educated on and some not. its all up to fate.

  2. Zteph says:

    Actually I have a question what happens when one of the mates die

  3. Michelle says:

    If one of the mates die then they can’t find another because they mate for life so basically they grieve until they die or so I have read from other webstites.

    • CreepyLilZombie says:

      This isn’t necessarily true. Sounds romantic though! Just like normal wolves, werewolves have the reputation for finding one mate and if widowed then they may choose to go throughout the remainder of their life without another partner, but some do. They wouldn’t just grieve until they die, as they know that they have responsibilities to remain strong especially in front of their pack.

    • Lycanhope says:

      ^ This. Spot on.

    • Christoph says:

      I’m sorry but I am a werewolf you get a second chance but it’s an a lot weaker connection

  4. kenzi says:

    what happens if a mate cheats on its other half? do they feel it or do they die ?

    • Lycanhope says:

      What on earth would cause either of those outcomes?!?
      I think you need to lay off the romance novels for a bit, that’s not how healthy relationships work

    • Haiden says:

      Actually, in my opinion they do feel it. Like humans they only feel it 10x worst. It’s like when a man cheats on a woman, she goes into rage. Well for a werewolf they could go rouge and even attack there own mate from the pain.

    • Kat says:

      They can’t really cheat on their other half, their wolf would recognise that the person they are cheating with is not your mate and quite frankly, try to take over.

  5. Amber says:

    When werewolves mates cheat on them it is like how humans feel just a little worse. You see if you know if this person is supposed to be with you for the rest of your life then it hurts even worse knowing they know and decide to cheat any way. With humans you don’t know who your soulmate is so it hurts but just not as bad.

    • Anonymous says:

      Yes it hurts. Didn’t cheat but another bìtch too mine away because she was better then me. I dont know if it hurts more, you tell me? You can’t be both human and werewolf. You can be half and half, but unless I can be both at the same time, then I have no idea if it feels worse. Although it feels pretty bad, i have no purpose in life.

  6. rose says:

    I read it and am a little mad with what you wrote because I am a werewolf part vampire

  7. Garima says:

    I want to know can werewolves have human mates? If yes.. Thwn how do they find them?

    • Lycanhope says:

      Heard good things about Tindr.

    • Anonymous says:

      Yes they can. Ite simple how to find a mate if they’re human. It’s easy to tell, it feels like a tight not in your stomach, kind of like nerves, but it’s not nerves because there isn’t a nervous feeling. When not close to them, you feel very alone. Being with them is the best feeling in the world and their scent is beautiful, no matter what the person looks like, they’ll be beautiful to you just because of their scent. It really hurts not being with the person for long periods of time and get the feeling that you just want to hold onto them.

    • Christoph says:

      The same way they would find their mate if it was a werewolf

  8. Alpha says:

    Um…like how a human finds a human mate. Since we control our transformations they are never in danger so its like a human relationship.

  9. Anonymous says:

    I’m sad 🙁 this is depressing. Kill me now. Its not fair, everyone is so happy and I thought I was too but then this bìtch stole the one who I thought I had connected too. I know the one I like isn’t happy with this bìtch but won’t leave her. 🙁

    • Anonymous says:

      She is very controlling, even more so than me and with her being more controlling I don’t stand a chance.

  10. Alpha says:

    @Anonymous please shut the fuk up, i dont know if you know this but people dont like spammers, ya know the people who almost fill up the recent comments section, we dont like those people.

    • Christoph says:

      Hey @Alpha how a bout you shut up I know I have an entire pack behind me how about you? BTW she hasn’t spammed so SHUT UP

  11. Ms. Nativelove says:

    Just a question but do werewolves fall in love with humans? Seeing that they too are part human. Just wondering

  12. Ms. Nativelove says:

    Never mind. Should have read all the comments before writing mine.

  13. asuna says:

    are werewolf male really possesive about their mate

  14. anonymous says:

    What if you get a tingly sensation from hitting someone but not very hard and they feel it as well and when your not with them you feel empty

    • Lycanhope says:

      I believe that’s called an abusive relationship coupled with Stockholm Syndrome. Seek therapy.

  15. anonymous says:

    I didn’t mean literally hit the person I was anger with the person because he dropped a stick on my face because we didn’t know that we both liked each other. But during the electricity feeling went through my whole body and I was happy and wanted to stay by the person

  16. Queen says:

    I really do love werewolves…..but let’s be realistic….if a werewolf was my mate, and shows himself to me in wolf form,i’ll be scared shitless…..and my question is this….do they have gay mates and the other way round?

  17. Christoph says:

    They can @Queen

  18. Christoph says:

    @Garou Not WW Shut up you don’t know much do you? Werewolves can mate and not have a sterile offspring!

  19. Crystal says:

    I’m interested in werewolves but they’re just fictional beings characters so…y’all acting like they real

  20. Lillith Jane Black says:

    Crystal do you believe in magic

  21. Rose says:

    Wait guys u act so serious as if u guys are actually werewolves I mean are u guys lying is it a joke that your having fun while you make yourself look like one

  22. Danny says:

    No they are werewolfs accept me and lily and a few others

  23. Rose says:

    Lol very funny I believe your so called joke….Hahahah

  24. Rose says:

    Second thing werewolves don’t exist but I gotta say nice joke and don’t tell me u actually do believe their lie hahah there werewolves lol it’s all a lie ….

  25. Lillith Jane Black says:

    first of all werewolves are real they might not be but they are real

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