how do werewolves find their mate?

For a werewolf to find a mate is very difficult. There are many obstacles standing in their paths – not the least of which is that they are surrounded by humans that they have a hard time relating to and that have a hard time relating to them! Many werewolves go a long time without finding a mate. But how did the ones that did find one do it?

When a werewolf comes across their mate they can sense it. They feel an inexplicable urge to be near the individual. There is something compelling about the individual. They want to know everything about him or her. They want to spend time with the person. Inside, the werewolf will feel a sense of knowing they’ve found the right person, and they’ll no longer feel quite so alone. Everything will feel right, happy, and complete when they’re with their mate. It sounds so overly simplistic to just say that the werewolf will just “know” when they’ve found their mate…but it’s true.

Werewolves have a tendency to avoid people and crowds, and they have a difficult time with trust….all things which could hamper the process of finding their mate. One thing working in the werewolf’s favor however is that often two mates are drawn to each other… so even a werewolf that tends to be reclusive has a strong chance at finding their mate….it just may take a little bit longer. It’s an easier and faster process therefore when the werewolf has connected with themselves and knows who they are and is comfortable in their skin. With that knowledge and comfort level, the werewolf is more likely to be more comfortable around humans and other werewolves, and thus may come upon their other half faster. Regardless however, it does hold true that mates are often drawn to each other, and so will inevitably find each other. 🙂



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244 Responses

  1. Tia says:

    @Rose Hey, I don’t wan’t to get into this drama again but your dream or vision, or whatever you had. Can you tell me more about it? It reminds me of a dream I had back in 2012. :/

    • Rose says:

      It was not a dream because I was awake and I’m sure it was a vision and really did u have one too can u tell me ur one..So it was in the forst the werewolf was their and their was a girl beside him the wolf looked strong and dangerous and his fur colour was brownish I don’t know if it had black mixed in it but it definitely was brown and his eyes colour are just so beautiful it was yellowish , honey colour with black surrounding it and it held so many emotions that I can’t even say but the main one that I see war protection his protection…
      Please tell me if u know the meaning or reason behind it and was ur vision bad u look sad when u said u had a vision I hope ur okay now …

  2. Werewolves are awesome says:

    Rose that is not me

  3. Werewolves are awesome says:

    Lily so Remus (not me) was a werewolf and married a non werewolf creating a werewolf who married a non werewolf who made me so it was 50/50 that I was a werewolf

  4. Lillith Jane Black says:

    hes not a fuking werewolf

  5. Flare23 says:

    I have a question to ask? What does it mean when a werewolf or wolf marks its mate? What does that mean after it happens? Or before it happens?

    • Rose says:

      Lol I don’t know because I’m not a werewolf but from the movies and books I guess it indicates that your marked by that wolf or werewolf so others know that you already have a mate and I also read in the books it’s makes a special connection between the too that are mated and makes their bond stronger.

  6. Rylee says:

    Am I the only one who’s a bit freaked out by marking? Like ya, I get that it’s supposed to tell other males/females to piss off, but, um, the whole teeth into shoulder/neck area thing? A bit much if you ask me. I’m getting closer and closer to typical mating age, and that’s pretty much my only concern about it. I’m not afraid to by tied to one person for the rest of my life, in fact, I actually feel the need to be, but why do we have to mark, and why is it that I feel a hell of a lot more comfortable markING than being markED?

    • Rose says:

      Wait what so your a werewolf too but I mean it won’t hurt that much I mean dude I’m not a werewolf and I don’t think I’m a mate of a werewolf but don’t be scared leave everything to time and time will decide . If you love your mate than I’m pretty sure you can bare a little pain i mean come on I’m pretty sure you’ve gone through some pain in your life so don’t be scared and stay happy.i actually like the part were they mark there mate I feel like it’s cool and I think that’s what’s so special about being a wolf or a werewolf so be happy and enjoy your life…

  7. jay says:

    -First of we dont mark, like at all,
    -Secondly we dont have one mate ur entire life
    Rosa, “it wont hurt that much” u ever have a hicky? Ya the chewing on ur neck dosnt feel so good, also hes talking about biting, into ur neck, ya thats ganna hurt

    • Rose says:

      So even if it hurts he shouldn’t be scared because if he or she love their mate I’m sure you can bare some pain even if it’s going to hurt a lot but that’s my opinion you have yours and Rylee has his or she’s

  8. Shawnee says:

    Will every one plz calm it down already the more anger the more rage it can cause OK GOOD GLAD THAT ALL OF U ARE HAPPY WITH UR LIVES …

  9. Shawnee says:

    And im not here to debate on who werewolf or not , im here because of my self and i spent most of my life in the forest listening to the sounds of nature and wondering wich sound is comming from wich directions i tought my own self to know wich sound is from what direction and and i dont care for fighting with others because i try to avoid ppl and there ways of starting fights and intimidation in others i spend my time in the woods hunting for small prey to catch..,and other little critters

  10. khushboo says:

    is this stuff real? i mean do werewolves really exist? how can you be so sure?

  11. khushboo says:

    how do you know so much about the wolves? is it all true?

  12. Lillith Jane Black says:

    well im not sure how they know this stuff but I think that they were werewolves but im not sure but I think most of this stuff is real

  13. logan says:

    right Lilith i usually doubt until physical proof idk i am not the most open minded but i realy dont know because ledgends of older were’s and theres always some sort of truth behind legends

  14. Lillith Jane Black says:

    well im not a werewolf and I know nothing about your kind so thats the reason im not sure

  15. tatum says:

    I… I was wondering if you could or anyone could relate to me….this information is very true but what you/she failed to mention is mate separation.. no the wolfs do not die physically but mentally they are flooded with doubt, sadness, and a emptiness they can never fully shake…even if they do crush on someone new or get a life that they are happy with… the connection will never ever die… even if the curse it every single moment they breathe.. they can never fully hate there mate nor will they wish harm towards them… we, my mate and I… were separated because we tried to run away from our families…. we were young and naïve…he ended up being dragged away from me… we cried our souls out…the police watching us with pained faces… we tried to push each other out of our minds, trying to find someone to fill our holes in our hearts…he…he dated 7 girls… even when I had a hunch he tried to move on from me…when he told me he did date 7 girls and let me know what I thought was true.. a pain I cant explain consumed me and I fell onto the ground like a young child… something inside me was on fire,Dyeing.. I knew I had done the same thing with a few boys ( crushed and dated 3 boys for short periods of time) and I knew when I told him he felt the same pain I did… even though we talked over the phone and via text…it hurt more than not talking because we knew how far away from each other we really were…not to make it sound like we weren’t happy.. we were filled to the brim with joy from knowing the other was safe and sound somewhere in this vast world we live in.. but in our hearts… we were crying from the distance that was between us.. each of us secretly crying, wishing, hoping… we could be together… but alas….our communication was cut… I suppose his parents found out….or maybe he was tired of the lingering pain my existence caused him…my bestfriend…my one and only first and last love…ripped away because of my naïve and stupid choices I made those days almost a whopping two years ago…. when I think of being intimate with anyone other than him I feel sick…I feel more broken than I ever felt before the thought… I’m not sure what I want anymore, if I want him to come back to me or to disappear…my mind and my heart are torn… we met when I left my house for the first time in my life…. I met him when he was 11 and I was 10….. that was 5 years ago.. we were….. I need to stop or I will break…. just please what i say next is to anyone who reads this- please don’t make fast dissensions that could very well break your very life as you know it.. be smart as well as brave.. don’t misunderstand being stupid for being brave.. be smart as well as brave and think things through before you act.. do not end up like be… a girl that’s dreading her sweet 16 over the fact that time is still moving even when she wishes it wasn’t… if you believe in werewolves or not. This is a lesson everyone should wish to avoid first hand..

  16. Viktoria says:

    Okay everyone here is talking about being a werewolf and recently I was you know walking around my street and this lady was walking down the road and she randomly stopped and looked at me like she was intrigued and she was going on about how “I am a half werewolf? And I can only shift when I turn 18? And she was saying stuff about me having a mate, (she said she was a psychic idk) and she then said my mate was a dangerous man? A rogue? I didn’t know what that meant. but I looked it up, kinda confused really and she was going on and on about when I turned 18 I’d have my first shift, and then soon after he’d be coming for me.” Confused :p

    • JoeLupe says:

      Hey Viktoria, don’t feel bad! I am also feeling a little confused. I got a little bit of information on this stuff, but I still don’t know if I’m a werewolf or not. If that person is psychic, then I’d say your lucky because you have an answer. You are half-werewolf. Better than not knowing and getting more and more confused as the days go by. But were there anymore information on this rogue character?

    • Tamara says:

      Uh… I need people explaining things to me

  17. I’ve been through this before if what you guys are like me a werewolf I suggest you don’t tell anyone or on the website don’t be dumbass keep it to yourself unless the people your talking to are also a werewolf

  18. ???????? says:

    I’m a werewolf to so I suggest you guys keep,it to yourself don’t be a dumbass okay unless the people your talking to are werewolves too.

  19. Henry says:

    I am a werewolf too

  20. Evaluna says:

    what type of werewolf are you? and i can tell of your a fake or not because i am one

  21. claire says:

    is there really a werewolf? I’m really interested on knowing what is really true. I am an avid fan of reading books about it.

  22. Evaluna says:

    yeah im a quileute werewolf my ancestors were too

  23. Evaluna says:

    well im not necessarily a quileute wolf but i have relatives that are including two of my cousin whom i see almost everyday in wolf form

  24. Evaluna says:

    many people on this chat are werewolves or vampires there is even a dragon and the son of lucifer is my cousin believe it or not

  25. me says:

    Good Morning…
    I am not a werewolf only thing i know about werewolf is what I saw on movies.. but.. I think I start believing is this.. I live on a farm.. I saw something not sure what is was… but how do I explain this without sound stupid or crazy? I know I am not suppose to remember what I saw..
    I seen it a few times in different forms.. I have like flash backs… yes now you are certain I am craze even I think I am.. In my Room he was standing next to my bed.. up straight in a strange form.. not human not wolves. ( must be honest) I was very afraid… but somehow he made me sleep… every time after I experience this I have in real live a blister at the back of my head.. small but its their. ( un explainable) another time… ( few nights ) I am working long hours driving home late at night. please know I am not afraid … . I feel him.. its like I see him.. with out using my eyes.. ok I will be honest.. because I like you to be honest with me.. am I crazy seeing things…. experience things..? I m doing night watch… so I met a guy… strong beautiful person.. we immediately had this connection . I cant even tried to explain this connection.. I can only say its right is perfect… but soon I discovered he is married to another, He never did anything or say anything to me that I would think he is on to me… or me.. But I just know.. and I know he knows… It s like we are meant to be but we was not patient and we both had different partners so we need to be loyal to our partners… but out their we are soul mates we are one… we have this strong connection that no one else can share… even though we both fight it.. very hard and very badly… we did not see each other for long try to avoid each other… But I know he is protecting me.. he is out their looking out for me.. Last night I saw him at the meeting… at first i did not feel it.. when he arrived…( i was proud on myself – getting over him… good sign i think… (I will never get break up a married couple) but when the meeting started he leads this meeting I was sitting on the other side he looked at me straight in my eyes a few times… and he was doing the talking… and i lift my head and look him straight back in the eyes.. .(thinking in my head… I am over you I will not even blush when I look at you..I have it all together) While he talked he caught my eye and keep looking at me…. in that sentence he paused twice and both those times I was looking in his eyes.. now this is why I wrote this morning to you…. it was dark outside with enough light … I know what I saw… His eyes become light brown… much lighter and in one off that pauses their was veins in the one eye got darker… He close his eyes and look me straight in the eye again.. I looked down making if I did not saw it… very comfortable I sit their I am not afraid of him.. I am so very much in love with him.. even though I feel its wrong because he does have a mate!….. Can this be ….. that he does feel it to .. but he is loyal to his mate..( I know he is and he will never betray her) (that’s the part I love) (I just know it even thought no body said a word.. ) Can this be he also know I am his soul mate… and struggle to keep his emotions under control when it comes to me. I feel confuse … I actually google his eyes this morning ( for what I have seen with my own eyes) They say seeing is believing… and this how I ended up on your website… looks like he could be a werewolve .. am I craze… or just in love and my eyes played a trick on me? Am I confuse… ( I am normally ) Or I know their is something the whole time but my head tried to be “healthy” and “clear” not believing in creatures … or strange things… try to be being realistic / rational. I dont know … what I saw – i know I saw and it was beautiful ..

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