I saw a recent comment to werewolves encouraging them to learn self-control – to gain control over your emotions and desires. This is a great piece of advice. Werewolves need to learn the steps to self control so that they can function in the human world without revealing themselves for who they are. It can be all too easy to reveal yourself by having your temper flare up at the wrong time, or losing your focus and shifting at the wrong time. The result could mean humans hunting you…
Self control – learning to control your impulses and first instincts are extremely important to the werewolf.
1. The first step in self-control is identifing where you lack control. This can be a very difficult thing to do because it is not always easy to acknowledge where you may need help. Pride and ego often get in the way trying to convince you you have no problem. Set those two emotions aside and look really carefully inwards. Identify the area you just can’t seem to handle. If you cannot find it, seek the advise of someone close to you and knows that you’re a werewolf. Those that know you also know the situations in which you lose your temper.
2. Identify your trigger. Now that you know where you lack self-control, what is triggering it? Is it an action that you or someone else does that triggers it? Is it a specific human, werewolf, or vampire? What causes you to lose control??
3. Once you’ve identified your trigger, take action through self-denial! Break your habits! You know where you lose it, you know what causes it, the next step although the easiest to say is the hardest to do…take steps to change your reaction! You must deny yourself the luxury of reacting how you want to. Break the habits that cause you to lose control!
Understand that you cannot live as a werewolf without control. There are too many dangers in today’s human world, and you can’t afford for yourself to be contributing as one of those dangers.
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Also, dont be stupid in the decisions you make. I used to have a huge temper problem. I learned to control it by listening to soft music.
It usually works for all situations, except for when I’m REALLY pissed off, which is rare. You all out there can try this, too. Be sure, though, tolisten to something calming, or else it wont work. Good luck!
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I forgot. Learn from your mistakes. Don’t forget that everyone makes them, but not everyone learns from them. To all werewolves, please be sure to learn.
Too true Motown Werewolf.
I lose it at my brother all too often because of my temper. :/
I’m glad you agree. Go to werewolf population and look at my community’s history.
hehe true listening to music can really be calming. that is what i do especially around people i really dont like ^^
Somehow music takes the mind off of things easier
yep you got that right
note: me and i are one
hi anyone on?
hello ^^
[...] The first step you need to take to cope with being misunderstood, is understand where the misunderstandings are coming from. With humans, the misunderstandings of werewolf life are often fed to them from movies and novels. Understanding that humans do not know any better, while it does not stop the problem of being misunderstood, can certainly help you control your emotions. You must understand that humans are not necessarily directing their misunderstandings at you because of anything you did, but because of misinformation that they have grown up with from the media. Use this understanding to help yourself understand their misunderstandings and thus help temper your anger and frustrations. If you need more help with anger, you might want to investigate the steps to self control. [...]
true we humans grew from media.
i have pretty good self control even though im new at this but i do get pretty mad sometimes where have to go outside and run it off
like my bro really makes me mad so when he runs away outside (amused of my inferier anger ) i cant help but snarl and growl. and they call me an animal
but * snarl* I…..AM…………ONE!!!!!!!!!!! *breth* i need to chill maby i should go then again i chilled a bit.
I really need to learn how to control my anger issuses
I have big anger issuses……….:}
Sometimes I just get so mad…
I don’t think anything triggers it off – just the good ol’ moon. The few days around the full moon, I’m absolutely unbearable!
i cant control my anger can you help????
i think i a pack leader of some werewolf in my town
@Kachia 101:
i get mad too really bad