how to change

Just as humans can drop old habits and seek new beginnings for the new year so can you…

This is the time to sort and discard our enemies without creating new ones. Mend broken friendships, and gain new ones. What we seek is a ground, a place where we do not gain enemies or negative feelings but rather gain those relationships that make us stronger. Because it seems that throughout the year no matter how hard we work to create a life without negativity it always catches up with us. At some point over the year we get stuck in a place of negativity or struggle that we think will not pass. They will pass. But the new year for the weighted one is the time to learn from the past and look towards the future.
What werewolves and humans need to do now is look back over the year of the hurdles we have cleared. Use these experiences that we have had to start a new beginning without going back to the same old struggles or hardships we had over the year. Make yourself change by your past experiences, use them as a guide to promise yourself that you wont make the same mistakes… We don’t want to backtrack….

Work on any of your weaknesses by learning from those faults and mistakes. If over the past year you had trouble controlling your inner self make a promise that this year you can change. That you will work to strengthen your control over the things that make you turn into the one you can’t control. Resist temptations especially those that you know are wrong or bad for yourself…

Emotions fulfill our lives day in and out, learn to control your emotions by understanding when and where they are needed. Don’t overreact. Overreacting can cause you to lose your temper. If you do lose your temper give yourself some space and allow yourself to gain back control. Before making irrational decisions allow yourself some space and time to think clearly. If you can control your anger before reacting, try to cool down, then make a decision.

Prepare yourself now for the changes that you want to make in the new year… it’s almost here…



I am the second contributor to the ilovewerewolves home. Buddy is the first.

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38 Responses

  1. Shadow says:

    how can u help ur freind if thre becoming a werewolf

  2. night wolf says:

    @shadow: why do you want to stop him from changing

  3. ghost says:

    if you were born one how do you shed that skin is there any way?

  4. Lycanhope says:

    @ghost: Nevermind the how, WHY would you want to shed your skin? That sounds painful and messy. I think shedding should be left for snakes.

  5. Mary says:

    laughs. lycanhope you are very amusing. “it sounds painful and messy”

  6. ghost says:

    @lycanhope:i was just wondering i might be a lycan i have all the symptoms

  7. Lycanhope says:

    @ghost: The symptoms really mean nothing, they’re just a very vague guideline.
    So, in your own words, why do you think you’re a werewolf?

  8. ghost says:

    @Lycanhope: cause i feel more than just a human

  9. ILiekPizza says:


    You could be a Therian. Look up Therianthropy.

  10. dragonchick13 says:

    i think im a spirit werewolf… my friends call me a wolf or dog of even hyena all the timme because of the way i act is that odd?

  11. she wolf says:

    @dragonchick13: They’re just teasing you. It’s not odd. Just ignore them, maybe they’re just insecure.

  12. I’m a werewolf!!! Concerning all the changes it is cool!! I’ve been a werewolf for 12 years already if u want to turn into one here you go

    By the light of the moon and our pearsing howls we are further transformed us into cunning beasts.from the circle of life to the evolution of man,we are further transformed to the one with the land. Enjoy being your wolf!!!

  13. Lycanhope says:

    @Giagroenewald: Nice poem, but not evenly remotely accurate.

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