werewolf romance

Once a werewolf has found love, how do you take the love, and make the werewolf romance last when there are so many things in the human world conspiring to keep you apart?  The answer depends alot upon whether or not your romance is with a human, vampire, or another werewolf.

Werewolf – werewolf romance is probably the easiest scenario.  Both people in the relationship know the deepest secret the other carries, so deception and restraint do not play a big role in the relationship.  Or, to be more clear, should not play a big role in the relationship.  If you are finding you are having problems in a romance with another werewolf, my first question is, are you still hiding a part of yourself from your werewolf partner?  Remember, although as a werewolf you have trained yourself to hide and deceive others for personal safety, you do not have to do that with another werewolf.   Identify if you are still withholding something from your partner or the relationship .  If you are, acknowledge it, and open yourself up.  If you don’t, it could eventually pose trouble in your romance.

Vampire – werewolf romance can be a little trickier.  One of the trickiest parts is that traditionally, werewolves and vampires have been longtime enemies.  Of course, while this is not unanimously the case – and as we have discussed before, vampires and werewolves can certainly get along in some cases – it can be a bit trickier than either party can expect.  You might start out your romance completely oblivious to the longtime animosities between vampires and werewolves, thinking that you’re the exception.  But, breaking the barriers that have been built up by generations of others before you, can be more difficult that you think.  You may find yourself falling back on some of the old-time animosities as fuel during disagreements.  You might find yourself harboring resentments against your partner because of things that other werewolves say about vampires.  Do not let others influence your relationship. Your relationship does not include a third party.  While your friends may think themselves perfectly justified in bad-mouthing vampires around you, you must learn to keep them out of your relationship.  Your romance does not include their opinions about vampires.

Human – werewolf romance is the most difficult of the three scenarios.  The romance is likely to start OK, but  distrust can quickly develop.  As a werewolf, a human – werewolf romance means you give up alot of security by sharing your secret (the fact that you are a werewolf) with a human.  With werewolf romances,  it is unlikely your secret will be shared.  With vampire romances, it too is unlikely too be shared as vampires have a secret to keep as much as you.  But with humans…ah, well, they could rat you out to other humans in a second.

If the human you trust shares your secret, you are in deep trouble. The problem is, if you don’t share your secret, this can become a wall between the two of you. Your romance will not have the chance to develop further as you must keep half of yourself secret from your human partner.  The key behind a human – werewolf romance is first identifying if this is the love that will last and not just a quick romance.  Once you are certain that this is a love that will last, you must learn trust.  Trust in yourself, and trust in your human.  At some point, you will just have to go with your instincts, that this is a love that will last a lifetime, and trust the fact that you chose someone that loves you enough back to keep your secret, even if you have a disagreement or fight.



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61 Responses

  1. stian says:

    so in the usa werewolwes sem to be more visible then here in norway
    but i think its because the secret is bether hiden here in norway by the way
    internet is a super way for werewolves and humans talking there is no risk of the humans finding and harming the werewolf i hope i can find the protection
    of a werewolf girl someday.

    hachiana i know im going to sound stupid but i got a strong magic feling
    that u are a werewolf if so it is awsome i love al of u out there

  2. Hachina says:

    Hehe, if only. 😉

    I see myself as a wolf in every way, except for the physical. And you don’t sound stupid. xP

    And a few words of advice on looking for weres over the internet: Don’t believe everything you see. I learned that mistake a long time ago, lol. xD There’s lots of fakers out there, but there are genuine weres out there as well.

    Btw, good luck in your search for a she-wolf. 😛

  3. anonamous-werewolf says:

    how can i get a female werewolf to love me? and what did werewolf967 mean when they said being bit alone won’t turn you into a werewolf?

  4. anonamous-werewolf says:

    just call me jacob instead of anonamous. ok?

  5. lee ann says:

    romance is a waste of time….

  6. jäÿ says:

    Reynolds famous were wolf name

  7. Aconissa says:

    @lee ann: Lee an, don’t say that!

  8. anonamous-werewolf says:

    one thing i’ll do for sure when i’m 18 is change my first name to takuya

  9. lee ann says:

    well its true! it is a waste of time! all ull end up doing is gettin screwed and dumped or just straight out having your heart broken its a waste of time to chase after something that doesnt exist.

  10. Re-searcha says:

    papawolf before we go on, are you a werewolf too? as in do you claim to be one?

  11. Aconissa says:

    lee an, i know this will sound corny, but DON’T GIVE UP ON LOVE!

  12. Why do people think they can transform into werewolf’s????

  13. Sthefany says:

    That is so not true if I had a werewolf for a boyfriend I would totally never rat him out. And even if the relationship doesn’t last then I would still not say anything about him being a werewolves… So yea… Later 🙂

  14. Slivermoon says:

    I stay away from love. It is dangerous.

  15. Lover Girl says:

    @anonamous-werewolf: wait jacob i think i might know you

  16. mvbaurqfiorg says:

    @Lover Girl: really? are you in north western washiton around the puget sound region

  17. mvbaurqfiorg says:

    @Lover Girl: by the way i am annymous werewolf i hae chnged my account name a couple times since and decided to stick with mvbauqfiorg, the name of my guardian angel. also what is your name? that might help me out to know if i know you.

  18. WolfyxXX says:

    Hello Everyone~~ Would you be alarmed at all if I told you that we were outside and i just starting scratching myself till bloodshed and 2 minutes later my powers kicked in and told me? Help me!! It happened like 20 minutes ago 🙁

  19. WolfyxXX says:

    -srry 4 for 2 msg- told me that we were being watched??

  20. WolfyxXX says:

    Why does the new moon take place 1 day before my birthday?? im scared now. . .

  21. mvbaurqfiorg says:

    there were only two people I ever loved, one of them my dad doesn’t want me to be around, the other will not speak with me after I jokingly posted a GIGANTIC photo of Rock Lee from naruto on her wall.

  22. Kyle says:

    I love y Gf but your right there is no third party in a relationship an I know she is a vamp….. but dose she realy have to tease and say I’m more of a dog then a wolf senice even if I’m tranceformed she is the only one I will listen to? but I still love her

  23. ILiekPizza says:

    What if you had a werewolf – werewolf situation but neither of them knew about the other and both parties kept their secrets secret???

    That would make one funny sitcom ill tell you that! 😛

  24. edra says:

    Lol female who said romance waste of time. Spoken like an alpha female or embittered human. As 4 those curious about shifters we dislike term were’s . You doooo not befriend us we befriend you!,,, Changed form different being. Thus the change is curse.

  25. edra says:

    Hmm lee Ann child. I am old , v.old n your pain is a howl I hear. I have had many mates. My true mate was killed. Now I have mated many times. I am shifter. Now listen 2me. You will find your alpha Lily one but you must taste many loves be4 thus one proves worthy of you. Do not be bitter. Learn. Life is a hard school. If he went his way he was unworthy. Do I sound harsh? I am alone through choice. The wolf sits in the woods at times and amuses 2 hear you cubs! Lol. What say you brothers?! Hmmm. Ps. The one who killed my mate is no more. As said werewolves whatever you call us blah blah rrrrrrrrrrrrrr dangerous. Thusvthe curse.

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